Death, the scariest thing that can happen to you, and it is there we all know. You are going to die, someday, somewhere. It’ll take just a moment to uproot you from this world. You can’t do anything to prevent that moment from happening. But that’s the ONLY thing you can’t do.
All the moments except that last one are yours, ALL yours. If fear of death can’t rattle you, there is nothing much in this entire world which can hold you back from what you want to do, what you want to achieve. So accept it and live your life to the fullest.
Once you get that, you’ll start living your life differently and more cordially.
If you want to make a difference in others as well as yours life,
Don’t give **** about ‘What people will think?’
Afraid of what others will think? **** that ****, seriously. If you know what you are doing and are confident enough that result will change the way we see the world then don’t let anyone stop you from doing it. Thinking for the entire society or the world is their job, you can’t change that until you prove yourself. And to prove yourself you have to get out of that arena of mental fight, and start doing something real that makes sense and stand to prove that you were right. Let them do their job of advising (well, I am doing the same, advising you and yes you can stop reading if you want.), yes they might have achieved more than you, they might be experts in their fields but if you going to follow the exact path of theirs you can’t go beyond that. Take a lot advices and opinions if necessary but use your mind and follow your instinct while taking the decision.
Work to improve people’s lives
Always try to solve problems of people, or at least help them see how it can be solved. Sometimes you’ll find people that don’t even thank you for your help but ignore their ignorance or ego. Your mind has evolved a bit by solving that problem and that’s the real reward, improved intelligence to do better and bigger the next time. More you use your mind more efficiently you can solve problems.
Another reward is relationships you make by helping people out. No one is perfect, you’ll also need somebody’s help someday that’s where these relationships come to help you out of your problems. So be generous and make as many relations as possible by helping people out.
Never think you are too young, too old or too weak.
If you influence even a single soul, your life gets some meaning. Thinking you are too young, have you seen smile on people’s face when they saw a child giggling. Thinking you are too old, have you heard of Dobri Dorbev? You’ll find your excuse trivial after reading his story. Thinking you are too weak, (Thanks to Parvinder for suggesting the inspirational personality) go check out profile of Virali Modi (aka hotwheels) and from her story I got one more name in my mind and that is, Stephen Hawking. So thinking that to change or to influence the world you must have good body, pretty face, enough money in the bank account or contacts with high authorities are deadly excuses standing between who you can be and who you are.
What you need is a firm desire of doing something and dedication to continue doing that thing against all odds, people will feel the power in you and join you eventually.
Leave positive influence to lives you meet everyday, even at nano scale its worthy.
And your precious feedback on this article will surely have influence on my life. 🙂 Will be waiting.