You deep down know what exactly you want.
Though you often find yourself confused and indecisive with all the available options.
Is that so?
If so, let me tell you this.
It is less about the courage to follow your ambitions.
And more to do with clarity about what is YOUR ambition.
Not copying from your friends, parents, relatives, celebs but finding and being confident about something that energizes you. It can be anything.
Let’s get more clarity about why people find it difficult to be clear-minded.
It is because we have adopted wrong definition of clarity.
Most people think clarity is understanding how something works in theory without actually going through the practical process to experience if theory is true or not.
Many people know Pythagorus theorem.
But only a few people would realize value of it who know how and where to use it in real life. And actively have to use it often.
So information which we stuff in our head to feel better about knowing something.
About something we don’t even have to get our hands on to make our or someone else’s life better, builds clutter in your head that breaks momentum of your life.
Clarity means having sense of what you can with where you are and what you have.
Once you are aware of this, your brain will start wondering on what you can do instead of dwelling on uncontrollable aspect of your life.
As a consequence, you cannot stop your brain from acting on something which is important to you.
And consistently taking action is what makes you courageous.
Courage makes you attractive. Because you stand out from herds of social animals who couldn’t break out of their peer pressure.
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Things to remember
Clarity will make you stable.
Confidence will make you firm.
Curiosity will make you smarter. (thanks to Vardhan)
Courage will make you better.
Without strong foundation of clarity it is hard to be confident, curious and courageous.
And the best way to be clear about what you actually want in life is to keep in mind that
Today can be the last day of your life.
It sounds horrible but that’s your ego reacting to not dying, which is inevitable.
Your ego is the impression of yourself created by external inconsistent inputs.
This will keep your ego in check and will let your senses to its job without being affected by imaginary concern that how other will perceive you.
If you are struggling to understand this or have further questions then feel free to ask them in comments or via tweeting