If you want to navigate life like a surfer then ability to accept constantly changing world is must.
This doesn’t mean changing basic life principles i.e. authenticity, generousness, humility etc.
Many people mis-interpret acceptance as being unplanned but that’s not true.
You must actively try to design your life with careful planning, but during the journey always be ready to accept the change in plan.
If you don’t do this you will always find yourself planning without executing your plan effectively, and will get frustrated when you go nowhere.
How to learn acceptance?
Understand that there is no other option.
The sooner you realise this the better.
You cannot fight ever changing reality but what you can do is learn to keep yourself unaffected by it.
Focus on things under your direct control and optimise your routine for that only.
Everything else will fall in place eventually.
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